An Introduction to Grief

What is Grief?

Grief is a natural response to loss, a journey of emotions that can feel overwhelming and unpredictable. It is deeply personal — there is no “right” way to grieve, and healing happens at its own pace. Though grief may never fully fade, we choose how we grieve and how long we need; no one can make that decision for us. You will always miss your loved one, but with time, support, and care, the pain can soften, and the memories can bring more comfort than sorrow.

Common Symptoms of Grief

Grief affects the mind, body, and spirit in different ways. You may experience:

Emotional Symptoms:

  • Deep sadness, loneliness, or emptiness
  • Anger, frustration, or guilt over what was lost or left unsaid
  • Feelings of numbness or detachment
  • Anxiety, fear, or a sense of hopelessness

Physical Symptoms:

  • Fatigue, exhaustion, or lack of energy
  • Changes in sleep—difficulty falling asleep, waking up often, or oversleeping
  • Loss of appetite or overeating as a way to cope
  • Aches, pains, headaches, or a feeling of heaviness in the body

Physical Symptoms:

  • Fatigue, exhaustion, or lack of energy
  • Changes in sleep—difficulty falling asleep, waking up often, or oversleeping
  • Loss of appetite or overeating as a way to cope
  • Aches, pains, headaches, or a feeling of heaviness in the body

Mental Symptoms:

  • Difficulty focusing, forgetfulness, or feeling mentally “foggy”
  • Trouble making decisions or feeling easily overwhelmed
  • Constantly thinking about the loss or avoiding thoughts of it altogether
  • Questioning beliefs, purpose, or the meaning of life

Behavioral Symptoms:

  • Withdrawing from family, friends, or activities you once enjoyed
  • Feeling restless, unable to sit still, or struggling with motivation
  • Avoiding reminders of your loss or, conversely, seeking them out constantly
  • Increased reliance on substances, distractions, or unhealthy coping mechanisms

Behavioral Symptoms:

  • Withdrawing from family, friends, or activities you once enjoyed
  • Feeling restless, unable to sit still, or struggling with motivation
  • Avoiding reminders of your loss or, conversely, seeking them out constantly
  • Increased reliance on substances, distractions, or unhealthy coping mechanisms
Grief is not something to “get over”—it is something to move through, one step at a time. You are not alone, and you don’t have to do this by yourself. LOVS is here to walk with you. 💙